Noah & Jude's Apex Fun Run Promo Video - Made by Them

Jude and Noah spent all week brainstorming, story-boarding, and finally filming this little promo video nearly completely by themselves (I only filmed the intro and ending for them). They are trying to raise support for the Fun Run this Thursday. I'm so proud of these two!

Oh, and the ending is priceless. Noah was inspired by an idea from Justin, but this just seems a bit too familiar compared to last year's video . . .

You can support their run here: https://myapexevent.com/aej42y

PS: Contrary to what they say in the video, the funds just go to the school and not to clean water. I'm not sure where they got that from but they insisted on leaving it in, so I didn't mess with it. #funrun #apex #apexfundraiser

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