I've decided two things are absolutely true about me:
1 - I'm extremely high maintenance (Latte not coffee. 2% milk, not skim or whole; fat-included half-n-half not fat-free!)
2 - I was hands-down the most difficult, quarrelsome girlfriend in existance. As in "It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife" (Prv. 25:24) kind of girlfriend. I'm so thankful that God kept me and Jusje together against all preceivable odds and any sane person's better judgement.
Why is it so horribly uncomfortable to see how ugly your heart / personality really is? I feel like I'm covered in itchy wool.